Pet bereavement support for Colorado Springs families
With about 180,000 dog- or cat-owning households in Colorado Springs by our estimate, pet loss touches a lot of your neighbors. You don't have to carry it alone. Here's where to start.
- Free groups and helplines, explained
- Counselors who understand animal loss
- Crisis numbers if things feel too heavy
Colorado Springs, Colorado
Pet loss support in Colorado Springs: the local picture
For military families in Colorado Springs, a pet is often the constant through every move, and losing them can feel like losing part of home. If a spouse is deployed, grief can be especially isolating. Reach out to friends, your unit's family support network, your vet or a pet loss support line. Sharing photos with family far away can help too.
Many pet deaths follow a decision about euthanasia, and it is common in the weeks afterwards to wonder whether it came too early or too late. Vets see that guilt often, and most will gladly talk it through with you. If you have children, honest words help more than euphemisms, and giving them a role, such as choosing a photo or planting something once the snow clears, lets them grieve alongside you.
Your local library in Colorado Springs is an underrated place to start. Most carry books on pet loss for adults and gentle picture books for children, and librarians are used to quiet requests. Reading suits people who grieve privately, since you can take in other people's experiences at your own pace, without saying anything out loud. If a book resonates, it may point you toward the kind of support you'd want next.
Colorado Springs is home to about 494,743 people, the 2nd-largest of the 36 Colorado communities we cover. Denver, roughly 63 miles off, is the closest larger centre, and a share of the providers who cover Colorado Springs run from there.
Our pages for Fountain (13 miles), Castle Rock (38 miles) and Pueblo (41 miles) describe the same choices from those towns' point of view, and the providers overlap, so a quote from one often covers Colorado Springs as well.
Our estimate
180,000
How many dog- or cat-owning households Colorado Springs has (estimate)
How we calculated this
494,743 ÷ 2.5 = 197,897 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 180,000. A household with several pets counts once.
Our estimate
15,000
Estimated dog and cat losses in Colorado Springs each year
How we calculated this
180,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 15,000 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
If a number here surprises you, the primary material is Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry; we only apply it to this.
What local memorial customs mean for your grief
In Colorado, about 77.4%[5] of people are cremated, and many families now skip a traditional funeral in favor of something smaller and more personal. That shift has made it more acceptable to mark a pet's death, too. If you'd like to hold a short gathering for the friends who knew your pet, you're likely to find people here receptive rather than puzzled, and some may be glad to be asked.
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) is where the Colorado figure comes from. It counts people; we use it because attitudes to cremating a pet in Colorado Springs tend to follow attitudes to cremation generally.
Grieving through the Colorado Springs year
Colorado Springs winters are long, with average lows at or below freezing in January, February, March, November and December. Dark afternoons and fewer reasons to go outside can make grief heavier, especially if a dog used to get you out twice a day. Many people find it helps to keep a short daily walk anyway, at the time you used to go, even if it's only around the block.
If your pet died in the colder months, the ground around Colorado Springs may be frozen for a while, which can put a burial or a planting on hold. That waiting can feel hard, but many families come to value it. Keeping the ashes or a keepsake at home over winter, and marking the first thaw with a small planting, gives the grief a natural next step.
What pet loss support costs in Colorado Springs
Paid pet loss leave is rare: only 11%[6] of US employers offer it, according to AbsenceSoft. That means grief can cost you vacation days as well as vet bills, so it's worth asking your manager anyway. Below are national averages for the aftercare decisions many Colorado Springs families face, alongside the typical cost of each kind of support.
Rather than repeat the price table on every city page, we keep one for Colorado: Colorado costs. What each service includes is on the services page.
Free tool
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Rules that shape a goodbye in Colorado
Rules rarely come up in grief until you want to bury your pet in the yard, scatter ashes somewhere meaningful or take time off work. Burial and scattering are set locally, while pet bereavement leave is almost never required by law, so it depends on your employer. Where we have details for Colorado, they're below; your city or local council can confirm anything else.
To find your county or city office in Colorado, start with the official Colorado local government directory.
Start with the Colorado rules, which cover burial, scattering and oversight for the whole state, and treat Colorado Springs's local ordinances as a possible extra layer.
The first weeks after your pet dies, step by step
- Give yourself the patience you'd give a friend. Grief after a pet can be as intense as grief after a person.
- Take your time over aftercare decisions. Nothing has to be settled on the spot. You can ask the vet or the provider to hold off for a day or two while you consider.
- Keep one or two of their things out, like a collar or a favorite toy, somewhere you'll see them.
- Choose a place to grieve. A corner of the yard, a bench along the walk you used to take, or a shelf that holds their picture.
- Reach beyond your household if you feel alone. A group or pet bereavement line means you don't have to explain why this hurts. We can also email you options.
- Know the crisis number where you live in case a bad night gets very dark, and use it. Grief of every kind is welcome there.
Places and ways to remember them
Many people in Colorado Springs share an outdoor life with their animals, and the loss can hit hardest at the trailhead, on a morning in Garden of the Gods, or on the back deck facing Pikes Peak. Some find it too painful to return at first; others go back deliberately, to remember. Either is fine. A friend who knew your pet, your vet or a pet loss support group can help in the early weeks.
try the free planning tools, See what each option includes on our services page, read our guides and latest articles, or see how other readers answered in our polls. If you live between Colorado Springs and Lakewood, Fort Collins, Arvada and Aurora, either page applies. Every other community in Colorado, and all of the United States, is listed too.
Reader polls
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Pet loss grief check-in
A private, two-minute check-in on how you're coping, with ideas that match where you are.
Farewell & memorial service planner
Build a simple goodbye: who, where, readings, rituals and a checklist.
Questions people ask
Which nearby towns can I compare with Colorado Springs?
The closest communities we cover are Fountain (about 13 miles), Castle Rock (about 38 miles) and Pueblo (about 41 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Colorado Springs too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
Will I have to travel to Denver to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Denver (roughly 63 miles from Colorado Springs) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
How does Colorado Springs's weather affect pet aftercare?
July is the hottest month in Colorado Springs, with average highs around 87°F, so prompt collection matters most then. Average lows drop below freezing in January, February, March, November and December, which can make digging a grave hard until spring.
Is cremation common in Colorado?
For people, yes: about 77.4%[5] of Colorado deaths end in cremation, according to NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes the same figure for pets, but in our experience pet choices in Colorado Springs follow the human pattern closely, so cremation is the default most families here start from.
Why aren't there more pet loss groups in Colorado Springs if so many pets die?
By our estimate, around 15,000 dogs and cats die in Colorado Springs each year, but most of that grief happens privately. Groups depend on volunteers or a host such as a vet hospital, and they come and go. If you can't find one, online groups fill the gap, and asking your vet signals that people want one. Some owners start a small monthly meetup themselves.
What should I do with my pet's bed, bowls and toys?
Nothing, until you're ready. Some people pack everything away within days because seeing it hurts; others leave the bed in place for months. Both are normal. When you're ready, you might keep one or two favorite things, pass unused food and bedding to a local shelter in Colorado Springs, and put the collar somewhere safe. There's no deadline for any of it.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Colorado's cremation rate at 77.4% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Only 11% of employers offer paid pet loss leave, according to an AbsenceSoft survey. AbsenceSoft — Understanding Pet Bereavement Leave and Its Importance to Today's Workforce, 2025.
- [7] A private pet-loss counselling hour (CA$220 in Calgary) costs about as much as a basic private cremation, while at least four university and charity lines in the US, UK and Australia/NZ are free to call. Our estimate: Count of free-to-call lines: Tufts, Cornell, Blue Cross, Pets and People (free call). How we calculate.
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